Gottman Method Couples Therapy for Stronger Relationships

Gottman Method uses research-based techniques to improve communication and intimacy in California. It's designed to strengthen relationships and prevent divorce.

Gottman Method
Gottman Method
Gottman Method

What is the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy?

Understand how the Gottman Method uses research-based interventions to improve communication, build intimacy, and strengthen romantic relationships.

Key Benefits

Strengthens Relationship Bonds

Build deeper intimacy and connection with research-proven techniques

Prevents Relationship Divorce

Learn proven strategies that help couples stay together and thrive

Deepens Emotional Intimacy

Share deeper feelings and create stronger emotional bonds with your partner

Increases Relationship Longevity

Build relationships that last decades rather than years with proven strategies

Treatment Goals

Relationship Repair

Rebuild trust, intimacy, and connection in your romantic relationship

Conflict Resolution

Learn effective strategies to resolve disagreements and find mutually beneficial solutions

Emotional Attunement

Develop the ability to understand and respond appropriately to your partner's emotional needs

Secure Bonding

Create lasting emotional safety and trust that forms the foundation of healthy relationships

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person in black long sleeve shirt holding babys feet
person in black long sleeve shirt holding babys feet

What is the Gottman Method and Its Research-Based Approach?

Explore the science-backed methods that help couples build stronger communication, intimacy, and lasting relationships

The Process

The Process

The Process

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1

Relationship Assessment and Communication Patterns

Evaluate your relationship strengths and challenges to understand current communication dynamics

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2

Communication Skills Foundation

Learn fundamental communication skills that form the foundation of healthy relationships

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3

Conflict Resolution and Problem-Solving

Practice resolving disagreements constructively and develop collaborative problem-solving skills

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4

Intimacy Building and Emotional Connection

Deepen emotional and physical intimacy while strengthening your bond through vulnerable connection

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5

Relationship Mastery and Ongoing Growth

Achieve relationship mastery and continue growing together through life's inevitable changes and challenges

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woman in red blazer holding white paper
woman in red blazer holding white paper

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

Historical Development

Techniques Used

Love Map Building

Create detailed maps of your partner's inner world, dreams, and what makes them feel loved

Gottman Sound Relationship House

Build your relationship foundation using Gottman's seven principles for making relationships work

Turning Toward vs. Turning Away

Learn to recognize and respond positively when your partner makes emotional bids for connection

Repair Attempt Recognition

Learn to recognize and respond effectively when your partner attempts to repair relationship conflicts

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

Historical Development

Techniques Used

Love Map Building

Create detailed maps of your partner's inner world, dreams, and what makes them feel loved

Gottman Sound Relationship House

Build your relationship foundation using Gottman's seven principles for making relationships work

Turning Toward vs. Turning Away

Learn to recognize and respond positively when your partner makes emotional bids for connection

Repair Attempt Recognition

Learn to recognize and respond effectively when your partner attempts to repair relationship conflicts

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

History

Techniques Used

Love Map Building

Create detailed maps of your partner's inner world, dreams, and what makes them feel loved

Gottman Sound Relationship House

Build your relationship foundation using Gottman's seven principles for making relationships work

Turning Toward vs. Turning Away

Learn to recognize and respond positively when your partner makes emotional bids for connection

Repair Attempt Recognition

Learn to recognize and respond effectively when your partner attempts to repair relationship conflicts

Typical Exercises

Typical Exercises

Typical Exercises

Daily Appreciation Practice

Practice daily gratitude and appreciation exercises to strengthen your relationship bond and positive focus

Love Map Building Exercise

Create detailed maps of your partner's inner world, dreams, preferences, and what makes them feel loved

Relationship Repair Ritual

Create meaningful rituals to repair relationship damage and rebuild trust through intentional connection

Relationship Vision Board

Create a visual representation of your ideal relationship to inspire growth and maintain focus on shared goals

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • Justin M.

    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    Cielo P.

    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    Ricky M.

    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    Jessa R.

    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    Quinton H.

    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    Chris M

    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • Cal B.

    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    Anne B.

    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    Rebecca H.

    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    Jessica S.

    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    Aileen D.

    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    Yesenia G.

    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • Justin M.

    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    Cielo P.

    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    Ricky M.

    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    Jessa R.

    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    Quinton H.

    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    Chris M

    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • Cal B.

    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    Anne B.

    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    Rebecca H.

    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    Jessica S.

    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    Aileen D.

    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    Yesenia G.

    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • Justin M.

    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    Cielo P.

    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    Ricky M.

    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    Jessa R.

    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    Quinton H.

    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    Chris M

    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • Cal B.

    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    Anne B.

    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    Rebecca H.

    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    Jessica S.

    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    Aileen D.

    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    Yesenia G.

    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.

Who are the therapists at FamilyTime Centers, and what are their qualifications?

What does therapy at FamilyTime Centers cost?

What types of therapy services do you offer?

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Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.

Who are the therapists at FamilyTime Centers, and what are their qualifications?

What does therapy at FamilyTime Centers cost?

What types of therapy services do you offer?

How flexible are your scheduling options?

Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.

Who are the therapists at FamilyTime Centers, and what are their qualifications?

What does therapy at FamilyTime Centers cost?

What types of therapy services do you offer?

How flexible are your scheduling options?

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Quick & Confidential Assessment

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