Heal from Within Using Internal Family Systems Therapy

Internal Family Systems (IFS) helps you understand and harmonize the different “parts” of your inner world. By building a compassionate relationship with each part, clients move toward lasting emotional balance, trauma resolution, and authentic self-leadership.

Woman holding her face with both hands and eyes gently closed, symbolizing inner reflection, emotional complexity, and parts awareness in Internal Family Systems Therapy.
Woman holding her face with both hands and eyes gently closed, symbolizing inner reflection, emotional complexity, and parts awareness in Internal Family Systems Therapy.
Woman holding her face with both hands and eyes gently closed, symbolizing inner reflection, emotional complexity, and parts awareness in Internal Family Systems Therapy.

What Is Internal Family Systems Therapy and How Does It Work?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a structured therapy model that views the mind as made up of multiple “parts,” each with a unique role. These include protectors, exiles, and your core Self. Rather than silencing or eliminating parts, IFS helps you understand and heal them—creating lasting emotional clarity and inner peace.

Key Benefits

Heals Emotional Trauma at the Root

Access and care for inner parts carrying pain, shame, fear, or grief.

Reduces Internal Conflict

Help protective parts release extreme roles and allow cooperation with other parts.

Strengthens Self-Compassion and Clarity

Cultivate your core Self as a calm, curious, and confident internal leader.

Cultivate your core Self as a calm, curious, and confident internal leader.

Respond from your center rather than reacting from triggered parts.

Treatment Goals

Map Your Internal System

Identify protectors, exiles, and parts in conflict.

Unblend from Dominant Parts

Gain awareness and space from parts that take over.

Restore Internal Balance and Cooperation

Reorganize your internal system so parts work together under Self-leadership.

Heal and Unburden Wounded Exiles

Help younger, hurting parts release pain held from the past.

person in black long sleeve shirt holding babys feet
person in black long sleeve shirt holding babys feet
person in black long sleeve shirt holding babys feet

Internal Family Systems Therapy for Self-Led Healing and Wholeness

IFS helps you explore the different parts of your internal world—protectors, exiles, and your true Self. Through guided inner dialogue, clients learn to unburden wounded parts, reduce inner conflict, and live with greater clarity, calm, and compassion.

The Process

The Process

The Process

1

1

Parts Mapping and System Awareness

Clients begin by noticing inner roles—anxious parts, critical parts, avoidant parts—and how they interact.

2

2

Unblending from Parts

Create distance from reactive parts to access the calm, compassionate Self.

3

3

Building Internal Dialogue

Learn to speak with parts rather than about them. Each one is acknowledged, not judged.

4

4

Permission-Based Healing of Exiles

When protectors trust the process, clients gently access and comfort exiled parts carrying unresolved trauma.

5

5

Unburdening and Reorganization

Wounded parts release pain, and the system is rebalanced under the guidance of the Self.

woman in red blazer holding white paper
woman in red blazer holding white paper
woman in red blazer holding white paper

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

Historical Development

Techniques Used

Parts Identification & Mapping

Visualize and name key parts of your system and their functions.

Unblending Exercises

Pause and reconnect with Self to observe parts objectively.

Internal Dialogue Scripts

Practice speaking directly with parts to build trust and understanding.

Witnessing and Unburdening Rituals

Help exiled parts release past pain and accept comfort, safety, and support.

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

Historical Development

Techniques Used

Parts Identification & Mapping

Visualize and name key parts of your system and their functions.

Unblending Exercises

Pause and reconnect with Self to observe parts objectively.

Internal Dialogue Scripts

Practice speaking directly with parts to build trust and understanding.

Witnessing and Unburdening Rituals

Help exiled parts release past pain and accept comfort, safety, and support.

Techniques Used

Scientific Background

History

Techniques Used

Parts Identification & Mapping

Visualize and name key parts of your system and their functions.

Unblending Exercises

Pause and reconnect with Self to observe parts objectively.

Internal Dialogue Scripts

Practice speaking directly with parts to build trust and understanding.

Witnessing and Unburdening Rituals

Help exiled parts release past pain and accept comfort, safety, and support.

Typical Exercises

Typical Exercises

Parts Journal

Track when parts appear, what they feel, and what they’re trying to do.

Unblending Log

Document moments when a part “took over” and how you returned to Self.

Internal Family Tree

Map your system to understand connections between protectors and exiles.

Self-to-Part Letters

Write from your Self to a part with curiosity and compassion.

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What your coverage may include

Cigna members often enjoy reduced copays and extensive mental health benefits.

Get started quickly - most Cigna members begin therapy within the same week!

Choose your preferred method: in-person style video sessions, phone therapy, or text-based support based on what works best for your lifestyle.

*Actual costs may be lower than expected. Verify your specific benefits as coverage varies by plan.

Select your insurance company
to see your coverage

Don't see your plan? 

Give us a call: 818.821.6012

Cigna

Aetna

Beacon

Optum

L.A. Care

United Health

Other

Your copay could

be as low as

$0

Average Cigna member copay

per session

$15*

Want to know your exact copay and coverage? Give us a call at (818)-821-6012 we'll verify your insurance in minutes.

What your coverage may include

Cigna members often enjoy reduced copays and extensive mental health benefits.

Get started quickly - most Cigna members begin therapy within the same week!

Choose your preferred method: in-person style video sessions, phone therapy, or text-based support based on what works best for your lifestyle.

*Actual costs may be lower than expected. Verify your specific benefits as coverage varies by plan.

Select your insurance company
to see your coverage

Don't see your plan? 

Give us a call: 818.821.6012

Cigna

Aetna

Beacon

Optum

L.A. Care

United Health

Other

Your copay could

be as low as

$0

Average Cigna member copay

per session

$15*

Want to know your exact copay and coverage? Give us a call at (818)-821-6012 we'll verify your insurance in minutes.

What your coverage may include

Cigna members often enjoy reduced copays and extensive mental health benefits.

Get started quickly - most Cigna members begin therapy within the same week!

Choose your preferred method: in-person style video sessions, phone therapy, or text-based support based on what works best for your lifestyle.

*Actual costs may be lower than expected. Verify your specific benefits as coverage varies by plan.

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Justin M.

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    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cielo P.

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    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Ricky M.

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    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessa R.

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    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Quinton H.

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    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Chris M

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    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cal B.

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    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Anne B.

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    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Rebecca H.

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    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessica S.

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    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Aileen D.

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    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Yesenia G.

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    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Justin M.

    Google SVG Logo

    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cielo P.

    Google SVG Logo

    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Ricky M.

    Google SVG Logo

    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessa R.

    Google SVG Logo

    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Quinton H.

    Google SVG Logo

    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Chris M

    Google SVG Logo

    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cal B.

    Google SVG Logo

    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Anne B.

    Google SVG Logo

    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Rebecca H.

    Google SVG Logo

    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessica S.

    Google SVG Logo

    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Aileen D.

    Google SVG Logo

    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Yesenia G.

    Google SVG Logo

    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Testimonials

100+ Google reviews with an average 4.8★ rating

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Justin M.

    Google SVG Logo

    It’s been a life-changing expierence since I started my therapy with Michelle at this center. All the time I am warmly welcomed by the staff members, but most importantly I see the difference in my life finding all those new ways to heal. Highly recommend!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cielo P.

    Google SVG Logo

    I love Family Centers, my individual therapist has been helping me a lot, i love the flexibility they have in case i have an emergency they give me options to either reschedule or have my appointment in a call or videocall.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Ricky M.

    Google SVG Logo

    I have seen many therapist over the years and I have never been so impressed with such emotional intelligence that both inspires and challenges me. Huge thanks to Karen at FamilyTime Centers for connecting me with her. It is an invaluable boost to my quality of life.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessa R.

    Google SVG Logo

    Good place to be start the healing! Very nice ladies in the office! So very sweet with every interaction we had! Started therapy over a year ago & have improved so much! It's great to put myself first & I recommend FTC! ✨👍

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Quinton H.

    Google SVG Logo

    My experience with family time centers has been amazing. I was always told that men don’t need therapy, we just need to tough it out lol… I went to the family time center and they welcomed me with open arms.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Chris M

    Google SVG Logo

    Very happy with the therapist I was matched with. He has a background in helping people through trauma, which is exactly what I was looking for. The staff has been very helpful. Highly recommended!

  • “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Cal B.

    Google SVG Logo

    I'm truly grateful for Family Time Centers. I've been working with a fantastic therapist here for around 6 months, during which time I have made some large discoveries about myself, and some great strides in my personal evolution.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Anne B.

    Google SVG Logo

    Even after years of therapy, my specific work with IFS allowed me to go much deeper, healing at another level, all while feeling manageable; recommended for beginner to advanced to get to joy.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Rebecca H.

    Google SVG Logo

    FamilyTime Center has been nothing but friendly and helpful through out my experience. They even give you a call after a few weeks of service to check in and make sure everything is going well. I would recommend then to anyone.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Jessica S.

    Google SVG Logo

    My child sees Kimberly, and she is absolutely great! My child looks forward to each session and opens up to her effortlessly!

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Aileen D.

    Google SVG Logo

    Such a great experience with FamilyTime Center. Definitely recommend, if you are considering this is your sign! Staff was amazing and accommodating throughout my entire time here, they truly care for us all.

    “Google review profile image for FamilyTime Center, a trusted provider of family counseling and therapy services.

    Yesenia G.

    Google SVG Logo

    I want to thank FamilyTime Centers for promptly giving me an appointment when I needed it the most. I recommend them they are fast and kind. Thank you for your support

Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.

Who are the therapists at FamilyTime Centers, and what are their qualifications?

What does therapy at FamilyTime Centers cost?

What types of therapy services do you offer?

How flexible are your scheduling options?

Can I get online therapy in California from FamilyTime Centers?

How do I start therapy in Valley Village, Los Angeles

Does FamilyTime Centers accept insurance in Los Angeles?

What therapy is offered for anxiety in Los Angeles?

Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.

Who are the therapists at FamilyTime Centers, and what are their qualifications?

What does therapy at FamilyTime Centers cost?

What types of therapy services do you offer?

How flexible are your scheduling options?

Can I get online therapy in California from FamilyTime Centers?

How do I start therapy in Valley Village, Los Angeles

Does FamilyTime Centers accept insurance in Los Angeles?

What therapy is offered for anxiety in Los Angeles?

Common Questions

Have more questions? Visit our comprehensive FAQ page for detailed answers about insurance coverage, payment options, and getting started with therapy.